DON'T HIDE AND SEEK THE LOVE!!!!!

All our lives we wait for the True love of our life.. Someone who can be the only one for whom we matter the most in this universe... They say not everyone is lucky enough to find the "TRUE LOVE" of life and those who do find it.. say very few are lucky enough to keep it!!

Well in this roller coaster of seeking love.. Do we really remember what it is when its love that we have..  Love is an emotional connection and should not be treated frivolously..  

Love that can exist in so many shapes and sizes metaphorically if given a tag nurtures into a relationship.. and not being too philosophical about it.. 

I wonder, why is it always Want for Some more and never We have it all..

Why do the relationships always go through the test of time and becomes a subject of questioning.. Why cant we simply put life in relationships rather than counting relationships in life...

Trying not to sound cynical, why is it that we always focus on getting the love and never being in love.. 

Why do we always forget the worth of something when we get it??? And realise its worth when we loose it???

The more we are with someone, the more we tend to (not always intentionally) take the other person for granted.. So does this indicate that for most usual cases of all there is a hint of drifting apart in extreme closeness? And should there be a parameter or a warning device that can prevent the relationship going Hay-wire...  Why can't we keep the very love till the end from the time that we discover that love for someone..

 Is the increasing choice of  transitory relationships a reason that people look out more often as an excuse to simply shrug the love off and easily swift from one beloved to the other and enjoy it till it lasts...

If the world was still the same for each one of us thinking and sticking to the promises and vows of "Till death do us apart" then how far can this "seeking true love concept" be solved and can it considerably reduce this Hide and Seek for the most of all?? 

And can it help in being not so calculative while falling for someone and being assured that there is someone to catch us and  not being more prone to start using heart less after coming across few Heartless??

Is it just that more of wanting or expecting from others that signals the beginning of the cracks in any relationship?

Does the human need of never being completely satisfied with whatever we have and always trying to get more of everything can be the reason for "Its not Working" phrase being used more frequently and not rarely??

These unsatisfied wants (sometimes unreasonable demands as well) can probably even lead to irreversible changes and how well prepared we should keep ourselves to overcome it or simply avoid it in the first place??  
Can this only be done by trial and error?? Or the "TRUE LOVE" that we search for all our lives give us an understanding which helps us learn these lesson of life more rationally and keep in check what we look out for rather than loosing it forever...  

All we can do is to Love someone with all our heart as we never know what tomorrow holds... And keeping no regrets is the best way to cherish the past and welcome the future!!

Changes in life are necessary and inevitable as well and its not necessary that a relationship can be assessed completely perfect if there is no bumps at all.. Rather its more of enjoying the most of speed breakers ahead to reach the DESTINATION of life...  :)

                                                 And think not you can,

                                                  Direct the course of love,

                                                          For Love,

                                                   If it finds you worthy,

                                                    Directs your course...